Carrying a Tune

I am staying up way to late to write this, for those I may see at work tomorrow….

I’ll take a nonfat no whip mocha java chip frap 🙏🏻

I’ll make it quick…

Right because I don’t ramble, ever!

Little miss poo has been babbling some Ba, Ma, Oh and all kinds of stuff since January-ish.  Ask me when speech started and I need to search the calendar in my phone but it was around 18 months.  So you do the math, it’s midnight here and I am tired.

Anyhow after a late crazy night with her deciding to party at 1:30 after her bottle till about 4am she slept with me and fell asleep talking and woke up talking.

It’s honestly the sweetest sound and I hope it turns into more.

Some will claim they have heard Mom screamed in distress and Mara when she was loving on her pup but we have to get intent behind it to count it.

The other little diddy I finally caught on video was her mimicking Adelaide and I, this is pretty freaking huge for her.

xo desiree​

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Side Biz

So I have a big announcement hopefully coming out this Spring.

In the meantime I am happy to announce that I just made my already extremely busy life of wife, mom, contracts administrator, gardener, pool gal, pet owner, chauffeur and insurance expert even busier with being an independent consultant and stylist!

All the love is appreciated and ask me about anything!

http://www.desireemagee.myrandf.com

http://www.desireemagee.mypremierdesigns.com

P.S. wait to see how these will touch my big announcement. 

xoxo desiree

It’s a Family Affair

Adelaide had a school project to learn about a local City so the whole family went and helped.

Life is so busy that often we forget to explore all that we have around us.

It was so much fun taking the train to San Juan Capistrano, which only took 12 minutes versus driving which can be a crap shoot depending on traffic and accidents.  And little Daph was happier being held then in a car seat 🙃.

We spent a lot of time at the mission and learned that there are 21 missions in California, the Swallows that used to only nest in SJC now go to other places as well because they can and much more. 

This was Daphne’s 1st train ride!  Adelaide has taken the train to several sporting events and loves it, especially the cafe car!

xoxo desiree

Mammoth Weekend

Last week we went to Mammoth for a long weekend.

It was so AMAZING!!

I can’t remember the last time we had a family vacation.

It started off a little nuts, Adelaide got really sick Sunday and stayed home from school both Monday and Tuesday and Rich’s car had a PCB valve malfunction so we couldn’t take it and had to scramble to find a big SUV to rent just hours before we were leaving. 

And I mean just hours, we got the car at 8:30pm and left at 2:30am and the rental shops closed at 10pm.  We were a little panicked, thinking we would all have to squeeze in my car and oh yeah we had Rich’s cousin Nate with us and he is a BIG guy and we had our BIG dog and all our stuff and food. It would have required a major repack. 

But…

It all worked out and we rented a BIG expedition and loaded all the stuff in it while the dog had my huge trunk all to herself.  Lucky pooch!

I had this plan in my head to drive Daphne while asleep because she does not tolerate car rides around town well let alone a drive over 5 hours. So we typically give her a bottle at 1:30, we pushed that to 2:15 and left at 2:30.  

I drove the first half of the trip in my car making sure to set the tone for Daph, no stopping, talking or jerks to wake her.  I was not originally planning on taking the dog because she gets so hot and gets up with every turn but I had her.  I dropped a big dark beach towel over daph’s car seat to block out the street lights and turned her sound machine on.  I had to keep the car really cool for Mara so it was either AC full blast or windows depending on the outside temp, it was a little crazy but it worked and added extra white noise for Daphne and cool temps to keep me up.  I was freezing though and had my seat heater on. Daphne was toasty in a fleece Jammies so no worries about her and the air was blocked with the towel. 

I got a text from Nate that he could drive and I happily turned in my spot to him.  Nate drove the stuff with Adelaide to keep her sickness away from Daphne and Rich joined me.

A long boring drive brought finally got us to sunrise in the most gorgeous snow dusted mountain ranges.


We arrived in Mammoth and found a great little breakfast spot that had steel cut oats for Daphne and great omelets and bagels for the adults.

The timing was seriously PERFECT!

Now the adults were exhausted and the kids were awake but oh well, it was an uneventful drive.

We also arranged an early check-in to our Chalet so we finished breakfast and arrived at check-in on time. 

It has been record snowfall in Mammoth this year so to get to the Chalet they took our stuff by SnowCat. 


This is what the sides of the road looked like and the entrance to the Chalet.



Rich, the kids and I took the first day to relax and adjust to the altitude, our Chalet was at 9,000 feet! We prepared for the next day by getting our rentals and tickets, and picked up some last minute items at the store.  Nate decided to go riding for half a day. 

That night everyone was pretty dead.  Mara was in HEAVEN with the cool temps, snow and outdoor space.  We just left her out most of the time, she did not even want to come in.  She is such a good dog, doesn’t bother people or other dogs walking by unless they invite her to say hi.

The following days Rich and I took turns staying home with Daphne, he liked the crispier snow in the AM and I liked the softer snow in the Afternoon.  We tried to have a half day of daycare one day with Daphne but that didn’t happen.  We also tried to go ski together while she was napping and got in 1 hour together and she woke up to Nate and was not happy.  Big sis Adelaide to the rescue but Rich still had to go in, it just takes time to make it in for the mountain, it’s a BIG mountain.  Nate said she didn’t cry as hard as long as she didn’t see him, LOL.  That’s Daphne.  The switching worked, I think I would have been dead if I skied all day everyday. I was tired enough from a few hours.  

There were ZERO lift lines as well, so it really was all skiing and the slopes are long and I haven’t skied for two winters so I was a little rusty but it felt so great to get back out.

Adelaide did AMAZING as well. She decided to snowboard this trip instead of ski and that was ok. She stayed on the easy slopes on the first day but by the second day was going down some really tough stuff, what would be a black back east but a tough blue out west.  I was so proud of her!

One the trip back we decided to drive home at night so we could sleep in our own beds and that was a good idea, the middle of the night road construction was not fun but the drive seemed easier, maybe because I didn’t help except the first hour leaving the resort to get to dinner but I did have to tend to Daphne once she stirred a couple times. 

I highly recommend Mammoth to anyone considering it.  Lots to do for all not just skiing/snowboarding.  I hope you enjoy the pictures as much as we did making the memories.

xoxo Desiree


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Ear Tube Surgery Update

Daphne’s surgery went well, so Thank You for all your thoughts and Prayers!

She was quite pissed at the Nursing staff yesterday for touching her even if it was just to put an ID band on her, so you can imagine when they had to take blood for testing it did not go well. 

All the Pre-OP precautions takes longer than the actual surgery which was less than 10 minutes. 

In the recovery, Daphne was just as mad if not even more so since we were not with her when she woke up but we were very soon after.  She took a bottle, ate some oatmeal and banana and we were discharged by 10am.

I hope that the tubes work and she can be infection free!

xoxo desiree

Pre- Surgery Photo

Baby Steps

Little Miss Daphne Poo has been loving her new found skill that we call “Take a Step” 

Now mama needs a back brace and Daphne needs a harness because weighing in at only 21lbs the girl is heavy, just pure dead weight.

I know your probably laughing saying really, but I tell ya, YES! 

I know she will not get easier and only heavier (fingers crossed) so I had to push myself to start working out again to handle this little sack of potatoes. 

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Prayers Needed

For all you prayer Warriors out there I would appreciate one for Daphne on Monday she is getting Tube Surgery on her ears.

She has been suffering from ear infections almost weekly and we had this scheduled once before but had to cancel it because she got croup. 

This is a standard normal procedure for normal kids but for Mito kids the stress of the anesthesia, surgery can all throw her Mitochondria into a panic.

I had to dictate to all docs involved how it is going to go and I will still have to make sure the pre and post op bloodwork and drugs used are all kosher, since they screwed it up for her last appointment. Geesh, healthcare these days is bad, bad. Once I calm down from the week I had I will write about it but write now I have nothing nice to say, so I won’t say anything at all.